Ans is....
He starts getting serious about his Life,
'n she stops Thinking about It.
He Starts Saving Money to Spend only for Her,
'n She never stops Spending on herself.
He Stops Smoking, Drinking just for Her,
'n She starts Alarming about not to have Them.
He starts Getting Crazy on her Every Move,
'n She starts Realising how Beautiful is she for Someone.
He starts Telling her every Little Thing,
'n she starts Talkng about Useless Things..
He stops Sleeping just to have a little talk with her,
'n she starts Sacrificing her Sleep just to Let Him do so..
He starts Taking her as if she is his wife,
'n she starts Learning to Cook Food just to Prove it True..
He stops looking at other Girls,
'n she starts Getting Serious about her Own Looks.
He Gets Emotional while Reading this Text,
'n she Smiles for the Same.
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Thursday, November 10, 2011
Saturday, September 10, 2011
Har ek boss zaruri hota hai.......
Chai k Liye jaise Toast hota hai,
Waise har ek BOSS zaruri hota hai.
Koi friday evening review par bulaye
Koi Saturday ko office bulaye
Ek teri idea ko apna bataye,
Aur Ek tera target har month badhaye
Koi nature se gentle,
koi bura hota hai,
Par har ek boss zaruri hota hai.
Ek ghadi ghadi review kare, par kabhi kabhi advice de
Ek kabhi kabhi review kare, aur ghadi ghadi advice de
Koi Gyan ka ghoomta phirta satellite,
Koi din raat rakhe team ko tight;
Koi welcomed hai, koi forced hota hai
Par har ek boss zaruri hota hai
Koi bossy boss,
koi friendly boss
Koi Data crazy excel boss.
Moody boss, koi gloomy boss
Early morning office aane wala Boss,
Koi late night jaane wala Boss
Koi promote na kare aur appraisal me tarsaye
Koi good suggestion ko bhi thukhraye
Koi best friend aur, koi aloof hota hai
Par har ek boss Zaruri hota hai !!!
Waise har ek BOSS zaruri hota hai.
Koi friday evening review par bulaye
Koi Saturday ko office bulaye
Ek teri idea ko apna bataye,
Aur Ek tera target har month badhaye
Koi nature se gentle,
koi bura hota hai,
Par har ek boss zaruri hota hai.
Ek ghadi ghadi review kare, par kabhi kabhi advice de
Ek kabhi kabhi review kare, aur ghadi ghadi advice de
Koi Gyan ka ghoomta phirta satellite,
Koi din raat rakhe team ko tight;
Koi welcomed hai, koi forced hota hai
Par har ek boss zaruri hota hai
Koi bossy boss,
koi friendly boss
Koi Data crazy excel boss.
Moody boss, koi gloomy boss
Early morning office aane wala Boss,
Koi late night jaane wala Boss
Koi promote na kare aur appraisal me tarsaye
Koi good suggestion ko bhi thukhraye
Koi best friend aur, koi aloof hota hai
Par har ek boss Zaruri hota hai !!!
Saturday, August 20, 2011
10 reasons to smile
1. Smiling Makes Us Attractive
We are drawn to people who smile. There is an attraction factor. We want to know a smiling person and figure out what is so good. Frowns, scowls and grimaces all push people away -- but a smile draws them in (avoid these to keep your smile looking great).
2. Smiling Changes Our Mood
Next time you are feeling down, try putting on a smile. There's a good chance you mood will change for the better. Smiling can trick the body into helping you change your mood.
3. Smiling Is Contagious
When someone is smiling they lighten up the room, change the moods of others, and make things happier. A smiling person brings happiness with them. Smile lots and you will draw people to you.
4. Smiling Relieves Stress
Stress can really show up in our faces. Smiling helps to prevent us from looking tired, worn down, and overwhelmed. When you are stressed, take time to put on a smile. The stress should be reduced and you'll be better able to take action.
5. Smiling Boosts Your Immune System
Smiling helps the immune system to work better. When you smile, immune function improves possibly because you are more relaxed. Prevent the flu and colds by smiling.
6. Smiling Lowers Your Blood Pressure
When you smile, there is a measurable reduction in your blood pressure. Give it a try if you have a blood pressure monitor at home. Sit for a few minutes, take a reading. Then smile for a minute and take another reading while still smiling. Do you notice a difference?
7. Smiling Releases Endorphins, Natural Pain Killers and Serotonin
Studies have shown that smiling releases endorphins, natural pain killers, and serotonin. Together these three make us feel good. Smiling is a natural drug.
8. Smiling Lifts the Face and Makes You Look Younger
The muscles we use to smile lift the face, making a person appear younger. Don't go for a face lift, just try smiling your way through the day -- you'll look younger and feel better.
9. Smiling Makes You Seem Successful
Smiling people appear more confident, are more likely to be promoted, and more likely to be approached. Put on a smile at meetings and appointments and people will react to you differently.
10. Smiling Helps You Stay Positive
Try this test: Smile. Now try to think of something negative without losing the smile. It's hard. When we smile our body is sending the rest of us a message that "Life is Good!" Stay away from depression, stress and worry by smiling.
We are drawn to people who smile. There is an attraction factor. We want to know a smiling person and figure out what is so good. Frowns, scowls and grimaces all push people away -- but a smile draws them in (avoid these to keep your smile looking great).
2. Smiling Changes Our Mood
Next time you are feeling down, try putting on a smile. There's a good chance you mood will change for the better. Smiling can trick the body into helping you change your mood.
3. Smiling Is Contagious
When someone is smiling they lighten up the room, change the moods of others, and make things happier. A smiling person brings happiness with them. Smile lots and you will draw people to you.
4. Smiling Relieves Stress
Stress can really show up in our faces. Smiling helps to prevent us from looking tired, worn down, and overwhelmed. When you are stressed, take time to put on a smile. The stress should be reduced and you'll be better able to take action.
5. Smiling Boosts Your Immune System
Smiling helps the immune system to work better. When you smile, immune function improves possibly because you are more relaxed. Prevent the flu and colds by smiling.
6. Smiling Lowers Your Blood Pressure
When you smile, there is a measurable reduction in your blood pressure. Give it a try if you have a blood pressure monitor at home. Sit for a few minutes, take a reading. Then smile for a minute and take another reading while still smiling. Do you notice a difference?
7. Smiling Releases Endorphins, Natural Pain Killers and Serotonin
Studies have shown that smiling releases endorphins, natural pain killers, and serotonin. Together these three make us feel good. Smiling is a natural drug.
8. Smiling Lifts the Face and Makes You Look Younger
The muscles we use to smile lift the face, making a person appear younger. Don't go for a face lift, just try smiling your way through the day -- you'll look younger and feel better.
9. Smiling Makes You Seem Successful
Smiling people appear more confident, are more likely to be promoted, and more likely to be approached. Put on a smile at meetings and appointments and people will react to you differently.
10. Smiling Helps You Stay Positive
Try this test: Smile. Now try to think of something negative without losing the smile. It's hard. When we smile our body is sending the rest of us a message that "Life is Good!" Stay away from depression, stress and worry by smiling.
Friday, August 19, 2011
Read It..
એક દીકરી તો સાસરે જઈને ફરીથી મમ્મી જેવું જીવે છે(જીવવાનો પ્રયત્ન કરે છે). જે મમ્મી વિષે લગ્ન પહેલાં કદાચ કોઈ દીકરી એટલું નથી વિચારતી, જેટલું લગ્ન પછીની જવાબદારીઓ નિભાવતી વખતે એને વિચારે છે અને એ પ્રમાણે એનાં બદલાતા રૂટીન ને જીવે છે. કદાચ માનસિક પરિવર્તન પામે છે. લગ્ન પહેલા, પોતે શું કરવા માંગે છે કે ફ્યુચર, કે કરિયર કે એવી એવી જ થીયરીની વાતો કરતી દરેક દીકરી, સાસરે ગયા પછી પ્રેક્ટીકલ લાઈફમાં બહુ બદલાઈ જતી હોય છે.
લોકો લગ્ન પહેલા છોકરીના વિચારો જાણવા આતુર હોય છે, અને એ પ્રમાણે જ એનું અવલોકન કરે છે, પણ મને લાગે છે, કે એ માત્ર થીયરી છે, છોકરી લગ્ન પછી પ્રેક્ટીકલ લાઈફમાં કેવી હશે એ માટે એની મમ્મીના વિચારોનું પણ થોડું અવલોકન બહુ જરૂરી છે. કારણકે ઘણું ખરું એ અંગત જીવનમાં એની મમ્મીની પ્રતિકૃતિ જ બને છે. બહાર લોકોની દ્રષ્ટીએ સામાજિક બદલાવમાં ભલે એ ગમે તેટલી આધુનિક કેમ નાં હોય, લગ્ન પછી અચૂક માનસિક સ્તરે એ સંબંધોમાં વધારે સહનશીલ અને વિવેકી બને છે.
લોકો લગ્ન પહેલા છોકરીના વિચારો જાણવા આતુર હોય છે, અને એ પ્રમાણે જ એનું અવલોકન કરે છે, પણ મને લાગે છે, કે એ માત્ર થીયરી છે, છોકરી લગ્ન પછી પ્રેક્ટીકલ લાઈફમાં કેવી હશે એ માટે એની મમ્મીના વિચારોનું પણ થોડું અવલોકન બહુ જરૂરી છે. કારણકે ઘણું ખરું એ અંગત જીવનમાં એની મમ્મીની પ્રતિકૃતિ જ બને છે. બહાર લોકોની દ્રષ્ટીએ સામાજિક બદલાવમાં ભલે એ ગમે તેટલી આધુનિક કેમ નાં હોય, લગ્ન પછી અચૂક માનસિક સ્તરે એ સંબંધોમાં વધારે સહનશીલ અને વિવેકી બને છે.
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
ભારતીય નારી
પાંચ આંકડાની પગારદાર ભારતીય નારી
વહેલી સવારે પાંચ વાગ્યે ઉઠી જાય છે
ઉઠીને ભગવાન યાદ કર્યાં પહેલા એ
આખા દિવસમાં જે કાર્ય કરવાના છે એ યાદ કરે છે
અચાનક એને યાદ આવે છે
આજે કામવાળી નથી આવવાની
વોંશીગ મશીન ખરાબ છે
ગઇ કાલના કપડા ધોવાનાં બાકી છે
છ વાગ્યા સુધીમાં વાસણ અને કપડા
ધોવાનું ઉતાવળે આટોપી નાખે છે
પરસેવાથી રેબઝેબ કપાળ લુછીને
વિખરાયેલા વાળને રબ્બરબેંડથી બાંધે છે
સવારની તાજી હવામાં યોગા અને હળવી કસરત કરે છે
યોગા-કસરત પુરી થતાં એનાં બાળકોને સ્કુમ માટે તૈયાર કરે છે
બાળકોને ફટાફટ તૈયાર કરીને રસોડા તરફ વળે છે
બાળકો માટે નાસ્તો બનાવીને લંચબોકસ પેક કરે છે
પોતાના બાળકોને એ ટુ વ્હિલર વાહનમાં સ્કુલે મુકવા જાય છે
રસ્તામાં બચ્ચાઓ એમનાં માટે શું લઇ આવવાનું મમ્મીને કહે છે
ઓફિસનાં પેડીંગવર્કથી ચિતિંત મમ્મી બચ્ચાની વાતોને મગજના
એક ખુણે સાચવીને મુકી દે છે
સ્કુલથી પાછા આવીને ઘડીયાળમાં જોયું સાડાસાતનો સમય છે
પતિ,સાસું અને દેવર માટે નાસ્તો બનાવવા ફરી રસોડામાં જાય છે
ઘડીયાળમાં સમય જોતા જોતાં ફટાફટ ટેબલ પર નાસ્તો પિરસે છે
એ પણ ફટાફટ પોતાનો નાસ્તો પુરો કરે છે,ઘડીયાલ હસતાં
મુખે એને આઠ વાગ્યાનો સમય બતાવે છે
અને એ બાથરૂમ તરફ રવાના થાય છે
ઝટપટ સ્નાનવિધિ પૂરી કરીને પોતાના બેડરૂમના વોર્ડસામે ગોઠવાય જાય છે
ડ્રેસ અને સાડીઑની હારમાળા વચ્ચે શું પહેરવું એ વિચારે ચડે છે
આધુનિકા દેખાવા માટે જિન્સ અને ટોપ પર પંસદગી ઉતારે છે
કોલેજમાં જેના રૂપની ચર્ચા થતી એ રૂપગર્વિતા,પોતાના રૂપને
અકબંધ સચવાયેલું જોઇને અરિસામાં પોતાનાં પ્રતિબિંબ સામે
મસ્તીથી આંખ મિચકારે છે.અમસ્તું એનાથી હસાય જાય છે
એના મિત્રનો એસ એમ એસ યાદ આવી જાય છે.
એક હાથમાં બ્રાન્ડેવ વોચ,બીજા હાથમાં ટ્રેંડી બ્રેસલેટ
બંને આંખોમાં કાજલની પતલી લાઇને ખેંચે છે
હોઠો પર લાઇટ સેડની લિપસ્ટિક લગાડે છે
ઇમ્પોર્ટેડ પરફ્યુમ છાંટીને પગમા બ્રાન્ડેડ ચપ્પ્લ પહેરે છે
એની પોતાની કારમાં ઓફિસ જવા માટે નીકળે છે
ઘડીયાલમા જોયું તો સવારનાં નવ વાગ્યાનો સમય છે
ગુડ મોર્નિગનો રાબેતા મૂજબ ગમતો એસ એમ એસ આવે છે
સાડાનવ વાગ્યે ઓફિસ પહોંચે છે,
ગઇ કાલના પેડીંગવર્કને ફટાફટ પુરા કરે છે
સમય સવારનાં અગ્યાર વાગ્યાનો ધડીયાળ બતાવે છે
ઓફિસમાં બોસનું આગમન થયું,
થોડી વારમાં બોસનો બુલાવો મેડમને આવે છે
નવાકામ માટે એના પર પંસદગી ઉતારે છે
કારણ-ઓફિસની સિનિયર અને જવાબદાર વ્યકિત તરીકે ગણનાં થતી હતી
કંપનીની સૌથી વધું વિશ્વાશું તરીકે એની છાપ અકબંધ હતી
નવુ કામ હાથમાં લઇને પોતાની કેબિનમાં કોમ્પયુટર સામે ગોઠવાય છે
ઓફિસનું કામ,ફેસબુક,મિત્રોનાં ફોન,મેસેન્જર-આ બધાને પુરતો ન્યાય આપે છે
ઘડીયાલમાં સમય બતાવે છે બપોરનાં એક વાગ્યાને ત્રીસ મિનિટ .
મેંમ ટિફિનબોકસ ખોલે છે,ઓફિસની અન્ય છોકરીઓ કેબિનમાં આવે છે
ઓફિસમાં લાડકુ સ્થાન ધરાવતાં,મેમ સાથે છોકરી જમતા જમતાં
હસી-મજાક અને સુખ-દુખની વાતો કરે છે,ત્યારે આધુનિકા જેવી
લાગતી માનૂનીઓમાંથી મધ્યમવર્ગની ગૃહિણીની ઝાંખી થતી હતી
એક અલ્લડ છોકરી જતાં જતાં કહેતી ગઇ,”મેમ,આજે મસ્ત લાગો છોને કાંઇ.”
મેમ મનમાં મલકી ગયા,ફરી પેલા ફ્રેન્ડનો એસ એમ એસ યાદ આવી ગયો.
બે વાગ્યાને ત્રીસ મિનિટે બધા ફરી પોતપોતાના કામે વળગી જાય છે
વચ્ચે સમય કાઢીને પોતાના છોકરાઓ સાથે વાતો કરી લે છે
વચ્ચે વચ્ચે ખાસ મિત્રો સાથે ચેટ કરી લે છે,
ફેસબુકમાં મિત્રોની પોસ્ટ પર કોમેન્ટ મુકે છે
બોસે સોપેલું કામુ પુરું થતાં બોસની કેબિન તરફ વળે છે
કામ પુરું થયાની જવાબદારી વ્યવસ્થિત પુરી કરી એનો સંતોષ
બોસની કેબિનની બહાર નીકળતી વખતે ચહેરા પર દેખાય આવે છે
સમય બતાવે છે સાંજના સાડાપાંચ વાગ્યાનો,
કોમ્પયુટર ઓફ કરતાં પહેલા મિત્રો પાસેથી “હું જાંઉ”ની મંજુરી મેળવે છે
મિત્રોથી છુટા પડવાનો રંજ ચહેરા પર સ્પષ્ટ દેખાઇ આવે છે
ઓફિસથી નીકળીને સ્ટેસનરીની દુકાનેથી બચ્ચાની બધી વસ્તુંઓ ખરીદે છે
રસ્તામાં શાક માર્કેટમાંથી શાક-બકાલું ખરીદે છે,અન્ય પરચુરણ વસ્તું ખરીદે છે
સમય છે સાંજનાં છ વાગ્યાનો,ફટાફટ કપડા બદલીને જિમમાં જવા નીકળે છે
જિમમાંથી ધરે આવે છે,ઘરની ધડીયાલ થાકેલી હાલતમાં સાતનો સમય બતાવે છે
ફરી કપડા બદલાવીને એ રસોડા તરફ વળે છે,
ઘરનાં બધાને ભાવતી વાનગી બનાવે છે
બધી વાનગીઓ ડાઇનિંગ ટેબલ પર ગોઠવે છે
બધાને જમાડીને એ જમવા બેસે છે
પણ આ શું!જે બધાને ભાવે છે એ વાનગી મેમને નથી ભાવતી
બે રોટલી કેરીનાં છુંદા સાથે ખાઇ લે છે
ટેબલ પરનાં બધા વાસણૉ ઉપાડીને ફટાફટ સાફ કરી નાંખે છે
એક ખુણામાં પ્લાસ્ટીકનાં ટબમાં આજના ઉતારેલા કપડા જુવે છે
કપડાનો ઢગ જોઇને એક ઉનો નિસાસો નાંખે છે
વોંશીંગ મશીન ખરાબ છે એ યાદ આવે છે
કપડા ભરેલું ટબ ઉઠાવી ચોકડી તરફ વળે છે
ચોકડીમાં નદી કાઠે ગામડાની સ્ત્રીની યાદ અપાવે એ રીતે
કપડાને ઘોકાથી ધોતી હતી,
પાંચ આંકડાની પગારદાર એક ગુજરાતી નારી
વહેલી સવારે પાંચ વાગ્યે ઉઠી જાય છે
ઉઠીને ભગવાન યાદ કર્યાં પહેલા એ
આખા દિવસમાં જે કાર્ય કરવાના છે એ યાદ કરે છે
અચાનક એને યાદ આવે છે
આજે કામવાળી નથી આવવાની
વોંશીગ મશીન ખરાબ છે
ગઇ કાલના કપડા ધોવાનાં બાકી છે
છ વાગ્યા સુધીમાં વાસણ અને કપડા
ધોવાનું ઉતાવળે આટોપી નાખે છે
પરસેવાથી રેબઝેબ કપાળ લુછીને
વિખરાયેલા વાળને રબ્બરબેંડથી બાંધે છે
સવારની તાજી હવામાં યોગા અને હળવી કસરત કરે છે
યોગા-કસરત પુરી થતાં એનાં બાળકોને સ્કુમ માટે તૈયાર કરે છે
બાળકોને ફટાફટ તૈયાર કરીને રસોડા તરફ વળે છે
બાળકો માટે નાસ્તો બનાવીને લંચબોકસ પેક કરે છે
પોતાના બાળકોને એ ટુ વ્હિલર વાહનમાં સ્કુલે મુકવા જાય છે
રસ્તામાં બચ્ચાઓ એમનાં માટે શું લઇ આવવાનું મમ્મીને કહે છે
ઓફિસનાં પેડીંગવર્કથી ચિતિંત મમ્મી બચ્ચાની વાતોને મગજના
એક ખુણે સાચવીને મુકી દે છે
સ્કુલથી પાછા આવીને ઘડીયાળમાં જોયું સાડાસાતનો સમય છે
પતિ,સાસું અને દેવર માટે નાસ્તો બનાવવા ફરી રસોડામાં જાય છે
ઘડીયાળમાં સમય જોતા જોતાં ફટાફટ ટેબલ પર નાસ્તો પિરસે છે
એ પણ ફટાફટ પોતાનો નાસ્તો પુરો કરે છે,ઘડીયાલ હસતાં
મુખે એને આઠ વાગ્યાનો સમય બતાવે છે
અને એ બાથરૂમ તરફ રવાના થાય છે
ઝટપટ સ્નાનવિધિ પૂરી કરીને પોતાના બેડરૂમના વોર્ડસામે ગોઠવાય જાય છે
ડ્રેસ અને સાડીઑની હારમાળા વચ્ચે શું પહેરવું એ વિચારે ચડે છે
આધુનિકા દેખાવા માટે જિન્સ અને ટોપ પર પંસદગી ઉતારે છે
કોલેજમાં જેના રૂપની ચર્ચા થતી એ રૂપગર્વિતા,પોતાના રૂપને
અકબંધ સચવાયેલું જોઇને અરિસામાં પોતાનાં પ્રતિબિંબ સામે
મસ્તીથી આંખ મિચકારે છે.અમસ્તું એનાથી હસાય જાય છે
એના મિત્રનો એસ એમ એસ યાદ આવી જાય છે.
એક હાથમાં બ્રાન્ડેવ વોચ,બીજા હાથમાં ટ્રેંડી બ્રેસલેટ
બંને આંખોમાં કાજલની પતલી લાઇને ખેંચે છે
હોઠો પર લાઇટ સેડની લિપસ્ટિક લગાડે છે
ઇમ્પોર્ટેડ પરફ્યુમ છાંટીને પગમા બ્રાન્ડેડ ચપ્પ્લ પહેરે છે
એની પોતાની કારમાં ઓફિસ જવા માટે નીકળે છે
ઘડીયાલમા જોયું તો સવારનાં નવ વાગ્યાનો સમય છે
ગુડ મોર્નિગનો રાબેતા મૂજબ ગમતો એસ એમ એસ આવે છે
સાડાનવ વાગ્યે ઓફિસ પહોંચે છે,
ગઇ કાલના પેડીંગવર્કને ફટાફટ પુરા કરે છે
સમય સવારનાં અગ્યાર વાગ્યાનો ધડીયાળ બતાવે છે
ઓફિસમાં બોસનું આગમન થયું,
થોડી વારમાં બોસનો બુલાવો મેડમને આવે છે
નવાકામ માટે એના પર પંસદગી ઉતારે છે
કારણ-ઓફિસની સિનિયર અને જવાબદાર વ્યકિત તરીકે ગણનાં થતી હતી
કંપનીની સૌથી વધું વિશ્વાશું તરીકે એની છાપ અકબંધ હતી
નવુ કામ હાથમાં લઇને પોતાની કેબિનમાં કોમ્પયુટર સામે ગોઠવાય છે
ઓફિસનું કામ,ફેસબુક,મિત્રોનાં ફોન,મેસેન્જર-આ બધાને પુરતો ન્યાય આપે છે
ઘડીયાલમાં સમય બતાવે છે બપોરનાં એક વાગ્યાને ત્રીસ મિનિટ .
મેંમ ટિફિનબોકસ ખોલે છે,ઓફિસની અન્ય છોકરીઓ કેબિનમાં આવે છે
ઓફિસમાં લાડકુ સ્થાન ધરાવતાં,મેમ સાથે છોકરી જમતા જમતાં
હસી-મજાક અને સુખ-દુખની વાતો કરે છે,ત્યારે આધુનિકા જેવી
લાગતી માનૂનીઓમાંથી મધ્યમવર્ગની ગૃહિણીની ઝાંખી થતી હતી
એક અલ્લડ છોકરી જતાં જતાં કહેતી ગઇ,”મેમ,આજે મસ્ત લાગો છોને કાંઇ.”
મેમ મનમાં મલકી ગયા,ફરી પેલા ફ્રેન્ડનો એસ એમ એસ યાદ આવી ગયો.
બે વાગ્યાને ત્રીસ મિનિટે બધા ફરી પોતપોતાના કામે વળગી જાય છે
વચ્ચે સમય કાઢીને પોતાના છોકરાઓ સાથે વાતો કરી લે છે
વચ્ચે વચ્ચે ખાસ મિત્રો સાથે ચેટ કરી લે છે,
ફેસબુકમાં મિત્રોની પોસ્ટ પર કોમેન્ટ મુકે છે
બોસે સોપેલું કામુ પુરું થતાં બોસની કેબિન તરફ વળે છે
કામ પુરું થયાની જવાબદારી વ્યવસ્થિત પુરી કરી એનો સંતોષ
બોસની કેબિનની બહાર નીકળતી વખતે ચહેરા પર દેખાય આવે છે
સમય બતાવે છે સાંજના સાડાપાંચ વાગ્યાનો,
કોમ્પયુટર ઓફ કરતાં પહેલા મિત્રો પાસેથી “હું જાંઉ”ની મંજુરી મેળવે છે
મિત્રોથી છુટા પડવાનો રંજ ચહેરા પર સ્પષ્ટ દેખાઇ આવે છે
ઓફિસથી નીકળીને સ્ટેસનરીની દુકાનેથી બચ્ચાની બધી વસ્તુંઓ ખરીદે છે
રસ્તામાં શાક માર્કેટમાંથી શાક-બકાલું ખરીદે છે,અન્ય પરચુરણ વસ્તું ખરીદે છે
સમય છે સાંજનાં છ વાગ્યાનો,ફટાફટ કપડા બદલીને જિમમાં જવા નીકળે છે
જિમમાંથી ધરે આવે છે,ઘરની ધડીયાલ થાકેલી હાલતમાં સાતનો સમય બતાવે છે
ફરી કપડા બદલાવીને એ રસોડા તરફ વળે છે,
ઘરનાં બધાને ભાવતી વાનગી બનાવે છે
બધી વાનગીઓ ડાઇનિંગ ટેબલ પર ગોઠવે છે
બધાને જમાડીને એ જમવા બેસે છે
પણ આ શું!જે બધાને ભાવે છે એ વાનગી મેમને નથી ભાવતી
બે રોટલી કેરીનાં છુંદા સાથે ખાઇ લે છે
ટેબલ પરનાં બધા વાસણૉ ઉપાડીને ફટાફટ સાફ કરી નાંખે છે
એક ખુણામાં પ્લાસ્ટીકનાં ટબમાં આજના ઉતારેલા કપડા જુવે છે
કપડાનો ઢગ જોઇને એક ઉનો નિસાસો નાંખે છે
વોંશીંગ મશીન ખરાબ છે એ યાદ આવે છે
કપડા ભરેલું ટબ ઉઠાવી ચોકડી તરફ વળે છે
ચોકડીમાં નદી કાઠે ગામડાની સ્ત્રીની યાદ અપાવે એ રીતે
કપડાને ઘોકાથી ધોતી હતી,
પાંચ આંકડાની પગારદાર એક ગુજરાતી નારી
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
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કાલે જલશા કરતી હવે સાસરીયા મા સેવા કરતી થઇ ગઇ
કાલ જીન...્સ પહેરતી આજે સાડી પહેરતી થઇ ગઇ
માવતર મા વેહતી ચંચલ નદી સાસરીયે ધીર ગંભીર થઇ ગઇ
રોજ છુટ થી પૈસા વાપરતી આજ શાકભાજી ના ભાવતાલ કરતી થઇ ગઇ
કાલે સ્કુટી ફુલ સ્પીડે ચલાવતી એ આજે બાઇક મા પાછડ બેસતી થઇ ગઇ ગઇ
કાલ સુધી ૩ ટાઇમ બિન્દાસ જમતી આજે ૩ ટાઇમ જમવાનુ બનાવતી થઇ ગઇ
હંમેશા પોતાનુ ધાર્યુ કરતી આજ પતી નુ ધાર્યુ કરતી થઇ ગઇ
માં પાસે કામ કરાવતી આજે સાસુ નુ કામ કરતી થઇ ગઇ
બહેન સાથે લડતી ઝગડતી આજે નનંદ નુ ક્હયુ કરતી થઇ ગઇ
ભાભી ની મજાક કરતી આજ જેઠાણી ને આદર આપતી થઇ ગઇ
પિતા ના આંખ નુ પાણી આજ સસરા ના ગ્લાસ નુ પાણી થઇ ગઇ
છતા પણ પિતા કહે છે વાહ મારી આંખ નુ રતન મારી " દીકરી " સાસરીયે જઇ સુખી થઇ ગઇ
કાલે જલશા કરતી હવે સાસરીયા મા સેવા કરતી થઇ ગઇ
કાલ જીન...્સ પહેરતી આજે સાડી પહેરતી થઇ ગઇ
માવતર મા વેહતી ચંચલ નદી સાસરીયે ધીર ગંભીર થઇ ગઇ
રોજ છુટ થી પૈસા વાપરતી આજ શાકભાજી ના ભાવતાલ કરતી થઇ ગઇ
કાલે સ્કુટી ફુલ સ્પીડે ચલાવતી એ આજે બાઇક મા પાછડ બેસતી થઇ ગઇ ગઇ
કાલ સુધી ૩ ટાઇમ બિન્દાસ જમતી આજે ૩ ટાઇમ જમવાનુ બનાવતી થઇ ગઇ
હંમેશા પોતાનુ ધાર્યુ કરતી આજ પતી નુ ધાર્યુ કરતી થઇ ગઇ
માં પાસે કામ કરાવતી આજે સાસુ નુ કામ કરતી થઇ ગઇ
બહેન સાથે લડતી ઝગડતી આજે નનંદ નુ ક્હયુ કરતી થઇ ગઇ
ભાભી ની મજાક કરતી આજ જેઠાણી ને આદર આપતી થઇ ગઇ
પિતા ના આંખ નુ પાણી આજ સસરા ના ગ્લાસ નુ પાણી થઇ ગઇ
છતા પણ પિતા કહે છે વાહ મારી આંખ નુ રતન મારી " દીકરી " સાસરીયે જઇ સુખી થઇ ગઇ
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Nine Ways to Keep Moving Forward
Forget Regret
Leave your mistakes and regret in the past. They don’t define your value, then or now. When you stay in the past you become stuck and unable to move forward. We all have made mistakes with our job choices, friends and relationships. The consequences can hit us pretty hard. However, to begin learning how to put these experiences behind us – by letting them go, we can begin to live in the here and now. Give yourself the gift of forgiveness and keep moving forward.
Learn from Failure
Learning from failure and having regret are two separate things. Regret is an emotion; a feeling of disappointment along with a modest amount of shame or guilt. But to look back at a circumstance and figure out what went wrong gives you some very important information. This review allows you to evaluate what worked and what didn’t, and more importantly, why. Often when you are removed from a situation, you can look at it more objectively which will allow you to make better choices to keep moving forward.
Ask for Help
You are not alone. It may feel that way sometimes, but there are many people who would extend their hand and lift you up if asked. All you have to do is ask. Consider co-workers, neighbors, or your church. Often times we are afraid to ask because we don’t believe we are worthy to receive the help. Think about this: we are surrounded by millions and millions of people by design – for a purpose. A hand to grasp, a shoulder to cling, and a face to radiate hope can help you to keep moving forward.
Believe You are Worthy
Whatever your goal, your dream, or your desire, you are worthy of achieving it. The closer you get to it is when the enemy of you soul will begin putting doubt in your mind by playing the self-limiting tapes that say you are not worthy. Replace these old tapes with a newer one that contains the truth – you are worthy to have your heart’s true desire and to keep moving forward.
Take 100% Responsibility
Except in rare and unfortunate circumstances, you are responsible for the quality and condition of your life. Your career, your relationships and your happiness are all under your direct control. Sometimes we choose to do nothing when we get hit hard because it’s just easier and less painful that way. But the real pain is only deferred. You have to live with yourself. You have to live with the voice in your gut, your inner wisdom, that says you gave up too soon or didn’t try hard enough. When you hear this inner voice speaking to you, it’s usually right. It’s your choice, then, to get up and keep moving forward.
Know What You Want
This isn’t about the how, only the what. In order to move forward in life, you need a firm foundation to step from. Understanding what and where you want to go in life will provide your vision and spirit – your foundation. The how will figure itself out when you know you want to keep moving forward.
Trust
There are no accidents without value. When you get hit hard and land on your back, look for the reasons and for the value in this. Open your heart and trust this happened for a reason. Perhaps it was to test your determination or to alert you to the fact you were on the wrong path. Either way, trust the experience is happening for a reason and be open to making adjustments in order to keep moving forward.
Want it More
How badly do you want it? How badly do you really want to achieve what you are working so hard to accomplish? When you get hit hard, you have an opportunity to answer this question. It’s one thing to say you want to do something, or to be something. But to walk through the pain; to get up and keep moving forward knowing there may be more pain ahead, is a test of your determination and resolve. When you find yourself getting back on your feet, you have indeed answered this question and there’s no doubt you will keep moving forward.
Keep the Faith
Faith: A strong belief in something without proof or evidence
At the end of the day when you are weary from all of the effort and energy you have expended and you are sore and tired from being hit hard so many times, but the dream is not realized, the one thing that tells you to keep going; to get up tomorrow and to keep moving forward, is your faith. Honor this and cherish it. Faith is what makes you human. It gives you energy and hope. And if you let it, your faith will deliver you to wherever you want to go in life.
Leave your mistakes and regret in the past. They don’t define your value, then or now. When you stay in the past you become stuck and unable to move forward. We all have made mistakes with our job choices, friends and relationships. The consequences can hit us pretty hard. However, to begin learning how to put these experiences behind us – by letting them go, we can begin to live in the here and now. Give yourself the gift of forgiveness and keep moving forward.
Learn from Failure
Learning from failure and having regret are two separate things. Regret is an emotion; a feeling of disappointment along with a modest amount of shame or guilt. But to look back at a circumstance and figure out what went wrong gives you some very important information. This review allows you to evaluate what worked and what didn’t, and more importantly, why. Often when you are removed from a situation, you can look at it more objectively which will allow you to make better choices to keep moving forward.
Ask for Help
You are not alone. It may feel that way sometimes, but there are many people who would extend their hand and lift you up if asked. All you have to do is ask. Consider co-workers, neighbors, or your church. Often times we are afraid to ask because we don’t believe we are worthy to receive the help. Think about this: we are surrounded by millions and millions of people by design – for a purpose. A hand to grasp, a shoulder to cling, and a face to radiate hope can help you to keep moving forward.
Believe You are Worthy
Whatever your goal, your dream, or your desire, you are worthy of achieving it. The closer you get to it is when the enemy of you soul will begin putting doubt in your mind by playing the self-limiting tapes that say you are not worthy. Replace these old tapes with a newer one that contains the truth – you are worthy to have your heart’s true desire and to keep moving forward.
Take 100% Responsibility
Except in rare and unfortunate circumstances, you are responsible for the quality and condition of your life. Your career, your relationships and your happiness are all under your direct control. Sometimes we choose to do nothing when we get hit hard because it’s just easier and less painful that way. But the real pain is only deferred. You have to live with yourself. You have to live with the voice in your gut, your inner wisdom, that says you gave up too soon or didn’t try hard enough. When you hear this inner voice speaking to you, it’s usually right. It’s your choice, then, to get up and keep moving forward.
Know What You Want
This isn’t about the how, only the what. In order to move forward in life, you need a firm foundation to step from. Understanding what and where you want to go in life will provide your vision and spirit – your foundation. The how will figure itself out when you know you want to keep moving forward.
Trust
There are no accidents without value. When you get hit hard and land on your back, look for the reasons and for the value in this. Open your heart and trust this happened for a reason. Perhaps it was to test your determination or to alert you to the fact you were on the wrong path. Either way, trust the experience is happening for a reason and be open to making adjustments in order to keep moving forward.
Want it More
How badly do you want it? How badly do you really want to achieve what you are working so hard to accomplish? When you get hit hard, you have an opportunity to answer this question. It’s one thing to say you want to do something, or to be something. But to walk through the pain; to get up and keep moving forward knowing there may be more pain ahead, is a test of your determination and resolve. When you find yourself getting back on your feet, you have indeed answered this question and there’s no doubt you will keep moving forward.
Keep the Faith
Faith: A strong belief in something without proof or evidence
At the end of the day when you are weary from all of the effort and energy you have expended and you are sore and tired from being hit hard so many times, but the dream is not realized, the one thing that tells you to keep going; to get up tomorrow and to keep moving forward, is your faith. Honor this and cherish it. Faith is what makes you human. It gives you energy and hope. And if you let it, your faith will deliver you to wherever you want to go in life.
Monday, July 11, 2011
Biggest Truths of Life
A few of the biggest truths that we have learned from both the good and bad experiences in life, as well as lifelong passion for reading and study of human behavior are these:
• Nothing is ever ‘ as good as it gets .’
• You tend to get what you focus on .
• There is always a choice .
• There is always a way .
• Despite all obstacles, it is an amazing world.
• The joy of singing is enough reason to sing.
• Gratitude is a choice.
• Whatever our physical surroundings, we can create our own sense of space.
• Your past determines your present, but you determine your future.
• Applying common knowledge in an uncommon way is the basis of success.
• You can choose to be happy.
• Nothing is ever ‘ as good as it gets .’
• You tend to get what you focus on .
• There is always a choice .
• There is always a way .
• Despite all obstacles, it is an amazing world.
• The joy of singing is enough reason to sing.
• Gratitude is a choice.
• Whatever our physical surroundings, we can create our own sense of space.
• Your past determines your present, but you determine your future.
• Applying common knowledge in an uncommon way is the basis of success.
• You can choose to be happy.
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Build your Self Respect
Self respect is one of the most valuable things you can have. It helps you feel worthy of happiness and the respect of others. It reminds you that you are a valuable person- simply by virtue of being alive.
It also sets a standard for others to follow. People take most of their cues from how we treat ourselves, so if you want to be treated with kindness and respect, make sure that you are setting a good example.
A healthy self respect encourages you to treat yourself well. Treating yourself with respect promotes happiness in various ways.
Firstly, if the person with whom you spend every waking minute-yourself- is a kind and nurturing companion, you will feel much happier than if you spend your life being criticized, neglected, and made to feel inadequate by yourself. It is truly good advice to be your own best friend.
It is a shame that most people are far nicer to everyone else than they are to themselves. If you find that you are always negative and critical in your thinking about yourself, I encourage you to really start trying to become a positive, inspiring friend to yourself instead.
Of course, like any bad habit, ridding yourself of negative self-talk and attitudes will take time. If you become aware of the need to correct this behavior though, and commit to making changes, you are well on the road to developing a healthy new self respect.
If you believe that you deserve happiness and fulfillment, you are very likely to attract and create circumstances that promote these conditions. By feeling that your happiness is a priority, you will be on the lookout for opportunities to do things you enjoy, and that are in line with your goals and desires. Knowing that you deserve to be happy, you will probably not pass up chances to be happy.
On the other hand, if you are stuck in a negative mindset, and you believe that everyone else’s happiness is more important than yours, you will possibly forego your chances for fulfillment with flimsy excuses such as time, money, or other ‘more pressing’ commitments.
We consciously and subconsciously set out to create an external life that matches our internal beliefs.
If you have a good level of self respect, clear ideas of what you want in life, and the belief that you can and should have what you want, it is very likely that you will seek and find opportunities to fulfill these desires. Knowing what you want is a very big factor in having what you want. If you only have a very vague notion of a better life, it is very hard to take concrete steps towards creating one.
We also draw positive people, situations, and energy to us when we reflect a positive attitude ourselves. The fact that upbeat people with an optimistic outlook and good self image constantly seem to ‘get all the breaks’ is no coincidence. In a world based on energy, we have incredible power to attract and repel things and people.
Have you noticed that as you become more positive, more loving, and open your mind to the unlimited possibilities in life, you tend to be surrounded with people who share these qualities? ‘Like attracts like,’ it is said, and ‘birds of a feather do flock together.’
If you look at the people around you and see a miserable, gray-faced bunch, it’s time for a good hard look in the mirror. The people you spend most time with are probably a fair reflection of your own mental attitude. Even if you have a generally good outlook in life, being around gloomy people all the time will definitely take its toll.
As well as assessing your own level of self respect and optimism, and committing to improving these areas if you feel they are under par, make it a priority to surround yourself with cheerful, positive people. They will inspire you- enthusiasm is just as contagious as negativity. I know which I would rather ‘catch!’
It is said that ‘friends are the gift you give yourself,’ so give yourself gifts that lift you up rather than drag you down!
Once you have decided to improve and nurture your self image, you then need to focus on strategies for creating increased self respect.
I find that one of the most powerful ways to eliminate negative beliefs, and create positive ones, is by using affirmations (powerful positive statements repeated frequently).
EFT, or Emotional Freedom Technique can also be very effective in ridding yourself of emotional blocks and destructive thinking.
There are also many practical things you can do, such as focusing on your good qualities rather than the ones you see as bad. Be good to yourself. Practice saying ‘no’ when you don’t want to do something, and ‘yes’ when you do.
Make your happiness your priority. Do something you really love every day- even if it is only for a few minutes. Be gentle with yourself. Try not to expect too much from yourself. Give yourself time and space to just be yourself.
A strong, healthy self respect is one of the foundations of happiness and emotional well-being. It can help you through tough times, and inspire you to follow your heart and your dreams.
It also sets a standard for others to follow. People take most of their cues from how we treat ourselves, so if you want to be treated with kindness and respect, make sure that you are setting a good example.
A healthy self respect encourages you to treat yourself well. Treating yourself with respect promotes happiness in various ways.
Firstly, if the person with whom you spend every waking minute-yourself- is a kind and nurturing companion, you will feel much happier than if you spend your life being criticized, neglected, and made to feel inadequate by yourself. It is truly good advice to be your own best friend.
It is a shame that most people are far nicer to everyone else than they are to themselves. If you find that you are always negative and critical in your thinking about yourself, I encourage you to really start trying to become a positive, inspiring friend to yourself instead.
Of course, like any bad habit, ridding yourself of negative self-talk and attitudes will take time. If you become aware of the need to correct this behavior though, and commit to making changes, you are well on the road to developing a healthy new self respect.
If you believe that you deserve happiness and fulfillment, you are very likely to attract and create circumstances that promote these conditions. By feeling that your happiness is a priority, you will be on the lookout for opportunities to do things you enjoy, and that are in line with your goals and desires. Knowing that you deserve to be happy, you will probably not pass up chances to be happy.
On the other hand, if you are stuck in a negative mindset, and you believe that everyone else’s happiness is more important than yours, you will possibly forego your chances for fulfillment with flimsy excuses such as time, money, or other ‘more pressing’ commitments.
We consciously and subconsciously set out to create an external life that matches our internal beliefs.
If you have a good level of self respect, clear ideas of what you want in life, and the belief that you can and should have what you want, it is very likely that you will seek and find opportunities to fulfill these desires. Knowing what you want is a very big factor in having what you want. If you only have a very vague notion of a better life, it is very hard to take concrete steps towards creating one.
We also draw positive people, situations, and energy to us when we reflect a positive attitude ourselves. The fact that upbeat people with an optimistic outlook and good self image constantly seem to ‘get all the breaks’ is no coincidence. In a world based on energy, we have incredible power to attract and repel things and people.
Have you noticed that as you become more positive, more loving, and open your mind to the unlimited possibilities in life, you tend to be surrounded with people who share these qualities? ‘Like attracts like,’ it is said, and ‘birds of a feather do flock together.’
If you look at the people around you and see a miserable, gray-faced bunch, it’s time for a good hard look in the mirror. The people you spend most time with are probably a fair reflection of your own mental attitude. Even if you have a generally good outlook in life, being around gloomy people all the time will definitely take its toll.
As well as assessing your own level of self respect and optimism, and committing to improving these areas if you feel they are under par, make it a priority to surround yourself with cheerful, positive people. They will inspire you- enthusiasm is just as contagious as negativity. I know which I would rather ‘catch!’
It is said that ‘friends are the gift you give yourself,’ so give yourself gifts that lift you up rather than drag you down!
Once you have decided to improve and nurture your self image, you then need to focus on strategies for creating increased self respect.
I find that one of the most powerful ways to eliminate negative beliefs, and create positive ones, is by using affirmations (powerful positive statements repeated frequently).
EFT, or Emotional Freedom Technique can also be very effective in ridding yourself of emotional blocks and destructive thinking.
There are also many practical things you can do, such as focusing on your good qualities rather than the ones you see as bad. Be good to yourself. Practice saying ‘no’ when you don’t want to do something, and ‘yes’ when you do.
Make your happiness your priority. Do something you really love every day- even if it is only for a few minutes. Be gentle with yourself. Try not to expect too much from yourself. Give yourself time and space to just be yourself.
A strong, healthy self respect is one of the foundations of happiness and emotional well-being. It can help you through tough times, and inspire you to follow your heart and your dreams.
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Kabir V/S SE
Kabir :Aisi baani boliye, man ka aapa khoye
Auron ko sheetal kare, aaphi sheetal hoye
SE :Aisa presentation dijiye, man ka aapa khoye,
Auron ko confuse kare, aaphi confuse hoye
Kabir :Guru Govind doyu khade, kaake laagu paye
Balihari guru aapke, govind diyo bataye
SE :Client aur manager doyu khade, kaake laagu paye
Balihaari client aapke, manager diyo bataye.
Rahim :Rahiman dhaaga prem ka, mat todo chatkaye
tode se fir jude na, jude gaanth pad jaaye
SE :SE confidence manager, mat todo chatkaye
Project to barbaad hoye hi, appraisal mein waat lag jaye.
Kabir :Dheere dheere re mana, dheere sab kuch hoye,
Maali seenche sow ghara, ritu aaye phal hoye
SE :Dheere dheere re project leader, dheere project execute hoye,
client dikhaye kitni bhi urgency, release deadline ke baad hi hoye..
Kabir :Jab Tun Aaya Jagat Mein , Log Hanse Tu Roye
Aise Karni Na Kari , Pache Hanse Sab roye
SE :Jab project aaye company mein, client hase hum roye,
Aisi karni na kari , tu hase client roye...
Kabir :Dukh Mein Sumiran Sab Kare , Sukh Mein Kare Na Koye
Jo Sukh Mein Sumiran Kare , Tau Dukh Kahe Ko Hoye
SE :Rush hour mein kaam sab karen , routine mein kare na koye,
jo routine mein sab kaam kare, to rush hour kaahe hoye.
Kabir :Pothhi padh padh jag mooya, pandit bhaya na koye,
Dhai aakhar prem ka, padhe so pandit hoye
SE :Coding kar ar jag mooya, programmer bhaya na koye,
Do shabd copy-paste ke, kare so programmer hoye.
Kabir :Chalati chakki dekh ke, diya Kabira roye,
Do paatan ke beechmein, saabut bacha na koye
SE :Client aur manager ko dekhke, engineers saare roye,
Deadline meet karne ke chakkar mein, saabut bacha na koye.
Kabir :Chinta Aisee Dakini, Kat Kaleja Khaye
Vaid Bichara Kya Kare , Kahan Tak Dawa Lagaye
SE :Deadline aisi dakini, man ka tension badhaaye,
kaam itna ho sar par, time pe complete kaise ho paaye.
Kabir :Maala To Kar Mein Phire , Jeebh Phire Mukh Mahin
Manua To Chahun Dish Phire, Yeh To Sumiran Nahin
SE :Engineer gaye sab cigarette peene, Leader phire office maahin,
Cubicle se jyaada time canteen pe rahe, yeh to dedication naahin
Auron ko sheetal kare, aaphi sheetal hoye
SE :Aisa presentation dijiye, man ka aapa khoye,
Auron ko confuse kare, aaphi confuse hoye
Kabir :Guru Govind doyu khade, kaake laagu paye
Balihari guru aapke, govind diyo bataye
SE :Client aur manager doyu khade, kaake laagu paye
Balihaari client aapke, manager diyo bataye.
Rahim :Rahiman dhaaga prem ka, mat todo chatkaye
tode se fir jude na, jude gaanth pad jaaye
SE :SE confidence manager, mat todo chatkaye
Project to barbaad hoye hi, appraisal mein waat lag jaye.
Kabir :Dheere dheere re mana, dheere sab kuch hoye,
Maali seenche sow ghara, ritu aaye phal hoye
SE :Dheere dheere re project leader, dheere project execute hoye,
client dikhaye kitni bhi urgency, release deadline ke baad hi hoye..
Kabir :Jab Tun Aaya Jagat Mein , Log Hanse Tu Roye
Aise Karni Na Kari , Pache Hanse Sab roye
SE :Jab project aaye company mein, client hase hum roye,
Aisi karni na kari , tu hase client roye...
Kabir :Dukh Mein Sumiran Sab Kare , Sukh Mein Kare Na Koye
Jo Sukh Mein Sumiran Kare , Tau Dukh Kahe Ko Hoye
SE :Rush hour mein kaam sab karen , routine mein kare na koye,
jo routine mein sab kaam kare, to rush hour kaahe hoye.
Kabir :Pothhi padh padh jag mooya, pandit bhaya na koye,
Dhai aakhar prem ka, padhe so pandit hoye
SE :Coding kar ar jag mooya, programmer bhaya na koye,
Do shabd copy-paste ke, kare so programmer hoye.
Kabir :Chalati chakki dekh ke, diya Kabira roye,
Do paatan ke beechmein, saabut bacha na koye
SE :Client aur manager ko dekhke, engineers saare roye,
Deadline meet karne ke chakkar mein, saabut bacha na koye.
Kabir :Chinta Aisee Dakini, Kat Kaleja Khaye
Vaid Bichara Kya Kare , Kahan Tak Dawa Lagaye
SE :Deadline aisi dakini, man ka tension badhaaye,
kaam itna ho sar par, time pe complete kaise ho paaye.
Kabir :Maala To Kar Mein Phire , Jeebh Phire Mukh Mahin
Manua To Chahun Dish Phire, Yeh To Sumiran Nahin
SE :Engineer gaye sab cigarette peene, Leader phire office maahin,
Cubicle se jyaada time canteen pe rahe, yeh to dedication naahin
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Gone are the days
When the school reopened in June,
And we settled in our new desks and benches!
When we queued up in book depot,
And got our new books and notes!
When we wanted two Sundays and no Mondays,
Yet managed to line up daily for the morning prayers.
We learnt writing with slates and pencils, and
Progressed To fountain pens and ball pens and then Micro tips!
When we began drawing with crayons and evolved to
Color pencils and finally sketch pens!
When we started calculating first with tables and then with
Clarke's tables and advanced to
Calculators and computers!
When we chased one another in the
corridors in Intervals, and returned to the classrooms
Drenched in sweat!
When we had lunch in classrooms, corridors,
Playgrounds, under the trees and even in cycle sheds!
When all the colours in the world,
Decorated the campus on the Second Saturdays!
When a single P.T. period in the week's Time Table,
Was awaited more eagerly than the monsoons!
When cricket was played with writing pads as bats,
And Neckties and socks rolled into balls!
When few played "kabadi" and "Kho-Kho" in scorching sun,
While others simply played "book cricket" in the Confines of classroom!
Of fights but no conspiracies,
Of Competitions but seldom jealousy!
When we used to watch Live Cricket telecast,
In the opposite house in Intervals and Lunch breaks!
When few rushed at 3:45 to "Conquer" window seats
in our School bus!
While few others had "Big Fun","peppermint" ,"kulfi", " milk ice !" and "sharbat !" at 4o Clock!
Gone are the days
Of Sports Day, and the annual School Day,And the one-month long preparations for them.
Gone are the days Of the stressful Quarterly,
Half Yearly and Annual Exams, And the most enjoyed holidays after them!
Gone are the days Of tenth and twelfth standards, when We Spent almost the whole year writing revision tests!
We learnt,
We enjoyed,
We played,
We won,
We lost,
We laughed,
We cried,
We fought,
We thought.
With so much fun in them, so many friends,
So much experience, all this and more!
Gone are the days When we used to talk for hours with our friends!
Now we don't have time to say a 'Hi'!
Gone are the days
When we played games on the road!
Now we Code on the road with laptop!
Gone are the days
When we saw stars Shining at Night!
Now we see stars when our code doesn't Work!
Gone are the days
When we sat to chat with Friends on grounds!
Now we chat in chat rooms.....!
Gone are the days
Where we studied just to pass!
Now we study to save our job!
Gone are the days
Where we had no money in our pockets
and still fun filled on our hearts!!
Now we have the ATM as well as credit card but with an
empty heart!!
Gone are the days
Where we shouted on the road!
Now we don't shout even at home
Gone are the days
Where we got lectures from all!
Now we give lectures to all...
Gone are the days
But not the memories, which will be
Lingering in our hearts for ever and ever and
Ever and ever and ever .....
Gone are the Days.... But still there are lot more Days to
come in our
Life!!
NO MATTER HOW BUSY YOU ARE ,
DONT FORGET TO
LIVE THE LIFE THAT STILL
EXISTS...
And we settled in our new desks and benches!
When we queued up in book depot,
And got our new books and notes!
When we wanted two Sundays and no Mondays,
Yet managed to line up daily for the morning prayers.
We learnt writing with slates and pencils, and
Progressed To fountain pens and ball pens and then Micro tips!
When we began drawing with crayons and evolved to
Color pencils and finally sketch pens!
When we started calculating first with tables and then with
Clarke's tables and advanced to
Calculators and computers!
When we chased one another in the
corridors in Intervals, and returned to the classrooms
Drenched in sweat!
When we had lunch in classrooms, corridors,
Playgrounds, under the trees and even in cycle sheds!
When all the colours in the world,
Decorated the campus on the Second Saturdays!
When a single P.T. period in the week's Time Table,
Was awaited more eagerly than the monsoons!
When cricket was played with writing pads as bats,
And Neckties and socks rolled into balls!
When few played "kabadi" and "Kho-Kho" in scorching sun,
While others simply played "book cricket" in the Confines of classroom!
Of fights but no conspiracies,
Of Competitions but seldom jealousy!
When we used to watch Live Cricket telecast,
In the opposite house in Intervals and Lunch breaks!
When few rushed at 3:45 to "Conquer" window seats
in our School bus!
While few others had "Big Fun","peppermint" ,"kulfi", " milk ice !" and "sharbat !" at 4o Clock!
Gone are the days
Of Sports Day, and the annual School Day,And the one-month long preparations for them.
Gone are the days Of the stressful Quarterly,
Half Yearly and Annual Exams, And the most enjoyed holidays after them!
Gone are the days Of tenth and twelfth standards, when We Spent almost the whole year writing revision tests!
We learnt,
We enjoyed,
We played,
We won,
We lost,
We laughed,
We cried,
We fought,
We thought.
With so much fun in them, so many friends,
So much experience, all this and more!
Gone are the days When we used to talk for hours with our friends!
Now we don't have time to say a 'Hi'!
Gone are the days
When we played games on the road!
Now we Code on the road with laptop!
Gone are the days
When we saw stars Shining at Night!
Now we see stars when our code doesn't Work!
Gone are the days
When we sat to chat with Friends on grounds!
Now we chat in chat rooms.....!
Gone are the days
Where we studied just to pass!
Now we study to save our job!
Gone are the days
Where we had no money in our pockets
and still fun filled on our hearts!!
Now we have the ATM as well as credit card but with an
empty heart!!
Gone are the days
Where we shouted on the road!
Now we don't shout even at home
Gone are the days
Where we got lectures from all!
Now we give lectures to all...
Gone are the days
But not the memories, which will be
Lingering in our hearts for ever and ever and
Ever and ever and ever .....
Gone are the Days.... But still there are lot more Days to
come in our
Life!!
NO MATTER HOW BUSY YOU ARE ,
DONT FORGET TO
LIVE THE LIFE THAT STILL
EXISTS...
Go and thank ur dad
At age 8, your dad buys you an ice cream. You thanked him by dripping
it all over your lap.
When you were 9 years old, he paid for piano lessons. You thanked him
by never even bothering to practice.
When you were 10 years old he drove you all day, from soccer to
football to one birthday party after another. You thanked him by
jumping out
of the car and never looking back.
When you were 11 years old, he took you and your friends to
the movies. You thanked him by asking to sit in a different row.
When you were 12 years old, he warned you not to watch
certain TV shows. You thanked him by waiting until he left the house.
When you were 13, he suggested a haircut that was becoming old fashioned
You thanked him by telling him he had no
taste.
When you were 14, he paid for a month away at summer camp.
You thanked him by forgetting to write a single letter.
When you were 15, he came home from work, looking for a hug.
You thanked him by having your bedroom door locked.
When you were 16, he taught you how to drive his car. You
thanked him by taking it every chance you could.
When you were 17, he was expecting an important call. You thanked him
by being on the phone all night.
When you were 18, he cried at your high school graduation. You thanked
him by staying out partying until dawn.
When you were 19, he paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus
carried your bags. You thanked him by saying good-bye outside the dorm
so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.
When you were 25, he helped to pay for your wedding, and he told you
how deep he loved you. You thanked him by moving
halfway across the
country.
When you were 50, he fell ill and needed you to take ca re of him . You
thanked him by reading about the burden parents become to their
children.
And then, one day, he quietly died. And everything you never did came
crashing down like thunder on YOUR HEART. If you love your dad, send
this to all of ur Friends.If you don't then shame on u.'
it all over your lap.
When you were 9 years old, he paid for piano lessons. You thanked him
by never even bothering to practice.
When you were 10 years old he drove you all day, from soccer to
football to one birthday party after another. You thanked him by
jumping out
of the car and never looking back.
When you were 11 years old, he took you and your friends to
the movies. You thanked him by asking to sit in a different row.
When you were 12 years old, he warned you not to watch
certain TV shows. You thanked him by waiting until he left the house.
When you were 13, he suggested a haircut that was becoming old fashioned
You thanked him by telling him he had no
taste.
When you were 14, he paid for a month away at summer camp.
You thanked him by forgetting to write a single letter.
When you were 15, he came home from work, looking for a hug.
You thanked him by having your bedroom door locked.
When you were 16, he taught you how to drive his car. You
thanked him by taking it every chance you could.
When you were 17, he was expecting an important call. You thanked him
by being on the phone all night.
When you were 18, he cried at your high school graduation. You thanked
him by staying out partying until dawn.
When you were 19, he paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus
carried your bags. You thanked him by saying good-bye outside the dorm
so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.
When you were 25, he helped to pay for your wedding, and he told you
how deep he loved you. You thanked him by moving
halfway across the
country.
When you were 50, he fell ill and needed you to take ca re of him . You
thanked him by reading about the burden parents become to their
children.
And then, one day, he quietly died. And everything you never did came
crashing down like thunder on YOUR HEART. If you love your dad, send
this to all of ur Friends.If you don't then shame on u.'
Sunday, July 3, 2011
An Ultimate Love Poem
ભલે ઝગડીએ,ક્રોધ કરીએ,એકબીજા પર તૂટી પડીએ,
એકબીજા પર દાદાગીરી કરવા, છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
જે કહેવું હોય એ કહીલે,જે કરવું હોય એ કરીલે,
એકબીજાના ચોકઠા શોધવા છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
હું રીસાઈશ તો તું મનાવજે, તું રીસાઈશ તો હું મનાવીશ,
એકબીજાને લાડ લડાવવા, છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
આંખો જયારે ઝાંખી થશે,યાદશક્તિ પણ પાંખી થશે,
ત્યારે,એકબીજાને એકબીજામાં શોધવા છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
ઘુટણ જયારે દુખશે, કેડ પણ વળવાનું મુકશે,
ત્યારે એકબીજાના પગનાં નખ કાપવા,છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
મારા રીપોર્ટસ તદ્દન નોર્મલ છે,આઈ એમ ઓલરાઈટ ,
એમ કહીને એકબીજાને છેતરવા,છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
સાથ જયારે છૂટી જશે,વિદાય ની ઘડી આવી જશે,
ત્યારે, એકબીજાને માફ કરવા,છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
એકબીજા પર દાદાગીરી કરવા, છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
જે કહેવું હોય એ કહીલે,જે કરવું હોય એ કરીલે,
એકબીજાના ચોકઠા શોધવા છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
હું રીસાઈશ તો તું મનાવજે, તું રીસાઈશ તો હું મનાવીશ,
એકબીજાને લાડ લડાવવા, છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
આંખો જયારે ઝાંખી થશે,યાદશક્તિ પણ પાંખી થશે,
ત્યારે,એકબીજાને એકબીજામાં શોધવા છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
ઘુટણ જયારે દુખશે, કેડ પણ વળવાનું મુકશે,
ત્યારે એકબીજાના પગનાં નખ કાપવા,છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
મારા રીપોર્ટસ તદ્દન નોર્મલ છે,આઈ એમ ઓલરાઈટ ,
એમ કહીને એકબીજાને છેતરવા,છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
સાથ જયારે છૂટી જશે,વિદાય ની ઘડી આવી જશે,
ત્યારે, એકબીજાને માફ કરવા,છેલ્લે તો આપણે બેજ હોઈશું.
Saturday, July 2, 2011
ME and MY BOSS
When I Take a long time to finish,
I am slow,
When my boss takes a long time,
he is thorough
When I don't do it,
I am lazy,
When my boss does not do it,
he is busy,
When I do something without being told,
I am trying to be smart,
When my boss does the same,
he takes the initiative,
When I please my boss,
I am apple polishing,
When my boss pleases his boss,
He is cooperating,
When I make a mistake,
I' am an idiot.
When my boss makes a mistake,
He's only human.
When I am out of the office,
I am wandering around.
When my boss is out of the office,
He's on business.
When I am on a day off sick,
I am always sick.
When my boss is a day off sick,
He must be very ill.
When I apply for leave,
I must be going for an interview .
When my boss applies for leave,
it's because he's overworked
When I do good,
my boss never remembers,
When I do wrong,
he never forgets
I am slow,
When my boss takes a long time,
he is thorough
When I don't do it,
I am lazy,
When my boss does not do it,
he is busy,
When I do something without being told,
I am trying to be smart,
When my boss does the same,
he takes the initiative,
When I please my boss,
I am apple polishing,
When my boss pleases his boss,
He is cooperating,
When I make a mistake,
I' am an idiot.
When my boss makes a mistake,
He's only human.
When I am out of the office,
I am wandering around.
When my boss is out of the office,
He's on business.
When I am on a day off sick,
I am always sick.
When my boss is a day off sick,
He must be very ill.
When I apply for leave,
I must be going for an interview .
When my boss applies for leave,
it's because he's overworked
When I do good,
my boss never remembers,
When I do wrong,
he never forgets
Friday, July 1, 2011
एक आन्दोलन बन जाये
“दर्द होता रहा छटपटाते रहे,
आईने॒से सदा चोट खाते रहे,
वो वतन बेचकर मुस्कुराते रहे
हम वतन के लिए॒ सिर कटाते रहे”
हम वतन के लिए॒ सिर कटाते रहे”
280 लाख करोड़ का सवाल है ...
भारतीय गरीब है लेकिन भारत देश कभी गरीब नहीं रहा"* ये कहना है स्विस बैंक के डाइरेक्टर का. स्विस बैंक के डाइरेक्टर ने यह भी कहा है कि भारत का लगभग 280 लाख करोड़ रुपये उनके स्विस बैंक में जमा है. ये रकम इतनी है कि भारत का आने वाले 30 सालों का बजट बिना टैक्स के बनाया जा सकता है.
या यूँ कहें कि 60 करोड़ रोजगार के अवसर दिए जा सकते है. या यूँ भी कह सकते है कि भारत के किसी भी गाँव से दिल्ली तक 4 लेन रोड बनाया जा सकता है.
ऐसा भी कह सकते है कि 500 से ज्यादा सामाजिक प्रोजेक्ट पूर्ण किये जा सकते है. ये रकम इतनी ज्यादा है कि अगर हर भारतीय को 2000 रुपये हर महीने भी दिए जाये तो 60 साल तक ख़त्म ना हो. यानी भारत को किसी वर्ल्ड बैंक से लोन लेने कि कोई जरुरत नहीं है. जरा सोचिये ... हमारे भ्रष्ट राजनेताओं और नोकरशाहों ने कैसे देश को
लूटा है और ये लूट का सिलसिला अभी तक 2011 तक जारी है.
लूटा है और ये लूट का सिलसिला अभी तक 2011 तक जारी है.
इस सिलसिले को अब रोकना बहुत ज्यादा जरूरी हो गया है. अंग्रेजो ने हमारे भारत पर करीब 200 सालो तक राज करके करीब 1 लाख करोड़ रुपये लूटा.
मगर आजादी के केवल 64 सालों में हमारे भ्रस्टाचार ने 280 लाख करोड़ लूटा है. एक तरफ 200 साल में 1 लाख करोड़ है और दूसरी तरफ केवल 64 सालों में 280 लाख करोड़ है. यानि हर साल लगभग 4.37 लाख करोड़, या हर महीने करीब 36 हजार करोड़ भारतीय मुद्रा स्विस बैंक में इन भ्रष्ट लोगों द्वारा जमा करवाई गई है.
भारत को किसी वर्ल्ड बैंक के लोन की कोई दरकार नहीं है. सोचो की कितना पैसा हमारे भ्रष्ट राजनेताओं और उच्च अधिकारीयों ने ब्लाक करके रखा हुआ है.
हमे भ्रस्ट राजनेताओं और भ्रष्ट अधिकारीयों के खिलाफ जाने का पूर्ण अधिकार है.हाल ही में हुवे घोटालों का आप सभी को पता ही है - CWG घोटाला, २ जी स्पेक्ट्रुम घोटाला , आदर्श होउसिंग घोटाला ... और ना जाने कौन कौन से घोटाले अभी उजागर होने वाले है ........
आप लोग जोक्स फॉरवर्ड करते ही हो.
इसे भी इतना फॉरवर्ड करो की पूरा भारत इसे पढ़े ... और एक आन्दोलन बन जायेSunday, December 13, 2009
Speech by Chetan Bhagat at Symbiosis
Don't just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order. There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.
"Life is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls,there is no point coming first. Same is with life where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die.
One thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. Life is not meant to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we
really need to get so worked up?
It's ok, bunk a few classes, scoring low in couple of papers, goof up a few interviews, take leave from work, fall in love, little fights with your spouse. We are people, not programmed devices..." :)
"Don't be serious, be sincere."!!